An old wives’ tale is a type of urban legend, which is generally passed down by old wives to the next generation. Old wives’ tales often concern pregnancy, puberty and nutrition. The concept is ancient, going as far back as the 1st Century.

Numerous tales was passed down by generation to generation regarding foods which could stimulate a man’s passions. ‘Food is the way to a man’s heart’ is an old saying which is well regarded even to this modern day.

Most foods considered to be an aphrodisiac can cause allergies so if you choose to feed your man and he comes out in a rash, any romantic ideas will have to be shelved.

Listed below are some of the aphrodisiac foods:

• Oysters - the main food to cause an allergy.

• Truffles - an expensive food sometimes covered in chocolate.

• Asparagus tips - a vegetable which works best when eaten at the height of the season.

• Other Aphrodisiacs include: Strawberries, Honey, Basil, Thyme and Chillies.

• Chocolate has been regarded as the new aphrodisiac for women.

There are rumours, written poems and fables all written about the above foods, suggesting they can contribute to a rise in marriages and births.

Remember, the next time your partner cooks any of the foods mentioned above just remember the old wives’ tale.

Indian Gooseberries are antioxidants and are not as well known as the wild gooseberries grown in domestic gardens.

Indian gooseberries are high in Vitamin C. Their berries are green coloured and small in size.
The tree bears fruit and has many uses for treating various ailments. The whole of the herbal plant can be used, including its leaves and bark.

Immune System:
This plant can be used for the immune system. Take the same amount of the berry and honey. Pressed into a mixture, this recipe can help to strengthen the body’s immune system.

Diabetics:
Use a teaspoonful of the juice of the berries and mix with a cup of bitter guard. This routine needs to be followed twice a day for at least a month to lower the level of blood sugar.

Indigestion:
Cut some of the berries and mix with the juice of a lemon. Add rock salt to the mixture. Keep in a sealed jar for future use when you have trouble with the digestive tract.

Mouth ulcers:
Take the leaves and some of the bark of the herb, grind and then mix with water. Gargle regularly whilst warm to heal ulcers quickly.

This evergreen shrub grows to a height of six feet.  It has a reddish stem with needle like leaves, with small yellow flowers and blue-black berries.

Juniper has played a major medicinal role in many contagious diseases such as cholera and typhoid fever.

It was used to guard against the plague of Tibet. In Mongolia it was given to pregnant women when starting labour.

Juniper and Rosemary twigs were burnt for a log time in French hospitals to clear the air and it was used as and all round cure-all in Yugoslavia.

It was thought to alleviate diabetes and of course it is well known as an ingredient of gin. It also purifies the atmosphere and is an attractive herbal plant.

It has antiseptic, antispasmodic and aphrodisiac properties.

Mind:

•    Clears, stimulates and strengthens the nerves.

Body:

•    It is a diuretic and antiseptic of the genitor-urinary tract.

•    Good for cystitis and helps if a person suffers from kidney stones. If a persons has an enlarged prostate gland it can help to relieve the urine build up.

•    If a person is feeling drowsy or tired it can help to stimulate the body.

Effects on Skin:

•    Juniper is a tonic for oily and congested skin including dermatitis, weeping eczema and psoriasis.

This herbal plant has a few names but is usually known as Damiana or ‘Old Woman’s Broom’. It can be found in Namibia, Texas and Central America.
This herbal plant is sometimes used in liqueurs, sweets and some confectionary.
What the herb does it helps boost oxygen to a person’s genital area of the body and is used as an aphrodisiac. This herbal remedy is used by women as a tonic and to help with hormonal problems.
Uses of this herbal remedy include stopping a person feeling listless, strengthening the nerves system of a person, reducing anxiety, and helps with a low sex drive.

The herb can be found in tincture form or capsules and take care not to use more than the recommended dosage.

If you want to use this as part of your Home Remedies , then try it as a tea. Pour boiling water over a teaspoonful of dried leaves. Leave to steep and drain. Drink the liquid at least three times a day.
Note: This herb can be used in home remedies as a nerve tonic, anti-depressant and as a laxative.
Warning: do not use if you think you may be pregnant and if taking any prescribed medication keep your doctor informed.

There are two trees called Ylang-ylang. One is a dwarf bush that is cultivated which is small but has a stream of bright flowers all over its leaves. This shrub is cultivated in western conservatories.

The second one is the Ylang ylang tree which can be found in rainforests and usually grows to a magnificent twelve meters in height. It likes the sun and soil that is acidic.

The essential oils are derived from this herbal plant has a reputation for helping in the reduction of high blood pressure.

It also has a secretion of sebum for skin problems but is well known as an aphrodisiac.

The oil from this plant is used an ingredient in many varieties of perfumes. Its oriental perfume blends well with floral and fruity aromas.

If you are taking your wedding vows in Indonesia the flowers would be strewn all over the bed as tradition.

Note:

1.    Can be used as a tonic to help with the nervous system

2.    Lifts a person mood if suffering from depression.

3.    Calms and relaxes a person and eases tension and shock to a person’s body.

4.    Can be used as a mild sedative.

The main attraction of this herbal plant is the scent or aroma and is one of Mother Nature’s way of helping with impotency.

It can be hard to think of a menu for a romantic meal for two people. Here is a simple menu with dishes that can be prepared easily.

Starter:
The first thing that comes to mind as a starter are Oysters as they have a reputation as being the number one food to give to a partner with sexual desire in mind, otherwise known as Aphrodisiacs. Oysters can be served cooked or raw and they taste delicious when taken with a cool glass of wine or pink champagne. Zinc is the main ingredient which is responsible for an increase in a person’s libido.

Main Course:
Italians love pasta and they are renowned for being romantic. Try cooking pasta and Sweet Basil which is a fantastic stimulant. It’s as simple as that!

Sweet Dessert:
When you look at a fig it is shaped the same as a woman’s womb. Try taking a couple of them and cut them in half. Serve as a sweet dish with yummy vanilla ice cream.

Followed with:
How many of us think when we are eating dark chocolate it is considered as an aphrodisiac? If you choose to eat a good brand of dark chocolate the serotonin which is released makes you feel good.

Warning: Oysters do not suit everyone as they can cause an allergic reaction.

Combine this menu with other aphrodisiacs products for a romantic evening.

The herb plant Cumin can be found in Egypt, Mediterranean and parts of Asia and is used as an herb in cooking or as a fruit.

The Egyptians in biblical times used this herb to relieve headaches along with Frankincense and Juniper. It was seen as a symbol of fidelity by the Hindus and valued as one of their Herbal Remedies to prevent jaundice or piles.

The herb has antiseptic properties and is an aphrodisiac, tonic and a stimulant. It is good for the digestive system and acts as a tonic for the nervous system. If you are feeling tired and lethargic, this is the herb that will help although it can cause sensitivity in the skin and is not to be used if you are pregnant.

If used in a healing massage, the essential oil is warming to the body and can relieve any congestion in the body.  It is found to be helpful in muscular pains and osteoarthritis.

The aroma of this herb can be quite pungent and spicy, making it popular in Asian cooking. In the culinary field, it is an essential ingredient in Indian curries and as a flavour in the national dishes of Mexico.

This herb is in use as a healing medicine, in the kitchen and is grown easily in the garden.

It is an aphrodisiac plant and was popular with males in the early centuries; however, today it is better known for helping in the relief of chronic coughs, including the child illness whooping cough.

There are other problem areas such as the liver, kidney diseases and skin problems can benefit from this herbal plant. This plant, with its properties as an anti-inflammatory, can be invaluable as a diuretic or stimulant.

The young shoots of the flowers can be boiled and eaten the same way as you would with the better known asparagus. If you want to be more daring, the bulb can be dug up from a garden in the autumn season and boiled or roasted in the same way as chestnuts.

The method is easy as you take the roots or root cuttings of the herbal plant and make syrup as part of Herbal Remedies that can be made at home.

If you are thinking of planting the herb in the garden so that it can be one of your Home Remedies , it is easily cultivated so try sowing the fresh seed in autumn or in the springtime after a cold spell. Transfer the seeds into individual pots and leave to grow under cover, and then plant in spring after the frost has disappeared.

These oils are all names under the umbrella of Sandalwood, a rich and sweet aroma that reminds  you of your granddad smoking a pipe and settled in for a long winters evening. It has been known to be used as an aphrodisiac and as pleasant tool to aid meditation.

Both the Indian and Sri Lankan oils have specific differences although both are effective to use as a tonic to build up the immune system in the physical body and also balance the skin whether it is dry or oily.  They are especially good if you are a man and suffer with tender skin from shaving. It can be useful in relaxation, lifts depression and is well known as a balancing oil.

Sandalwood, if being used as part of a collection of Home Remedies , will surprise the person using it for the first time as the liquid is thick and can take time to come out of the bottle.  Unless you are very patient it may be useful to use a pipette. If stored correctly it will improve with age but if you have a favourite oil then stock up as it is becoming scarce, and the prices are soaring due to the aromatherapy oil becoming so popular.

Most popular sandalwood essential oils are from India and Sri Lanka although there are also Australian Aromatherapy Oils on the market but these may not have as strong an aroma (Santal Spicatum).

There are new sandalwood essential oils coming in from different countries that will enhance the scents once they have aged.  Sandalwood is known to be one of the Herbal Remedies that blends with almost every thing, including Atlas, Cedar wood , Enrol, vanilla and many more.

There are many different pills available online that can be used as Aphrodisiacs and they are available for both men and women.  It is not, contrary to some people’s belief, a purely male dominated area.

These aphrodisiac pills are usually taken on a regular basis, rather than just taking a single pill on the night in question.  A typical quantity is to take one pill per day.

The aphrodisiacs are designed to give you greater sexual pleasure, more stamina and are reported to help the subject feel sexier, more alive and have greater orgasms.

You may ask what is in these pills and the ingredients are listed on the pack.  Usually, the natural remedies include a special blend of natural herbs.  These herbs have been used for centuries as aphrodisiacs, it is nothing new, but the particular blend and the pill format is fairly recent and convenient for everyone to take.

When looking for aphrodisiac pills, many people prefer to buy them online as it keeps them anonymous and saves them embarrassment, as well as often being much cheaper than that found on the high street.